Too methodical. My mother thinks I act and have a taste like a man. My mom says I should have been born a man given my personality and interests. I am highly educated in a highly tech icalprofession. And both type share similar traits and behavior! We dont give up. INTJs don't put yourself in relationship with ENTJs! INFP stands for Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Prospecting. This site is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com. Myers Briggs is the only accurate personality typology that I've encountered, and thats in part due to it's specificity, it's the only useful typology, as it can help you understand yourself and others. Here is Why (+Tips to Improve), Taurus Sun Pisces Moon: Artistic Intuition, Taurus Sun Aquarius Moon: True Feelings Of Rebellion. INTPs like that ENTJs also share a strong belief in the importance of logical reasoning. Only other people can judge someone. I have read that they are ideal for each other. because one's extroverted thinking and the other is introverted thinking. INTPs find ENTJs fun and very good people to ask for a second opinion. I TELL YOU THIS. Everything else pales in comparison. If you aren't making mistakes you aren't trying hard enough. You're extremely earthly, vulgar, coarse and simple/close-minded. They often find ENTJSs to be pushy, controlling, and too demanding. My female boss is ENTJ Aries. This may cause a clash between these personality types and can make it difficult for these individuals to work together toward a goal. INTPs and ENTJs are both intuitive thinkers, so their communication is excellent for the most part. They love adventure and excitement. While everyone else is agonizing over a decision, an ENTJ will have spotted the smart way to get things done, mapped out an action plan, and gathered all the resources she needs to accomplish her mission. I hope it's not coming off too creepy, just not quite ready to give up a hope. They may often pursue creative careers where they allow themselves the freedom of expression. I guess the INTJs I've met are somewhat emotionally starved and end up self-absorbed from it. The thing about what people do when they feel hate is not look at themselves. I can't say I've ever had an experience where and ENTJ and myself got along great. As an ENTJ I do recognize a lot of patterns of your experience with a similar personality type, but when do we ever learn to not generalize the whole population when one or two does something (wrong)? They say an ENTJ/INTJ match is a good combination. Nothing else. Didnt know as a woman we make up 1% no wonder I always feel misunderstood.. agreet article. They admire their partners' energy and social confidence and respect their insights and understanding of what makes people tick. The most unforgivable sin of all, is that there simply are not enough of them to go round. ENTJs are driven toward success in their endeavors. Being a girl in a male dominated academic school track is hard in the first place but honestly I love the challenge and knowing I'll come out on top is a fantastic feeling. Yeeha! This is crazy to read this about myself and some of comments I am a ENTJ and a Leo and I always had problem with jobs and women but crazy part is if they would not pre judge they would find out I'm also cool ppl.. bottom line having this personality type makes it hard to be understood. INTPs and ENTJs are logical people and they appreciate each other's rational thought process. INTPs dislike when ENTJs get so confident in their ideas that they cannot see their pitfalls and biases. The go-getter nature of ENTjs and their ability to take the lead and do the most talking in public situations fit really well with INTPs more reserved nature. She's ENFJ. Like how i couldn't have emotional support from her when i need it most so i try to find another way, but she doesn't like it when i spend more time to seek comfort from my closefriends or even my beloved cousins cause she has this thought that i was just spend my time to play aroundhaving fun like a child that she can't control (even seen as rebellious from her point of view) and she always freaked out because of that. casually playing guitar in my mental arena, http://soredragon.blogspot.com/2008/06/judge-dread.html, Truth, just.Truth. Thankyou for your brilliant description. ENTJ. She told me that was the meanest thing anyone's ever said to her and I was thinking I gave her a compliment. We make up just only onepercent of the woman population. They're so focused on the big picture that the 'details thing' does them in. Wow Im an ENTJ, and an Aries, and my name is also Mercedes. This man had some serious ambitions to achieve - he didn't want to be told to lighten up or 'chill.' ENTJs may procrastinate because they are perfectionists, fear failure, or do not see any value in the relevant task. I am an ENTJ -Pisces. Every single woman in the world, no matter the culture and background, will be drawn to ENTJ types. Sagittarius(don't really use these). If I mess up in a serious way, I apologize. Typically, ENTJs, ENTPs, and ENFJs are attracted to INTPs. INTPs may trust ENTJs who allow them the freedom to be a little spontaneous and adventurous; ENTJs should be patient with INTPs, understanding their need for experience. I tend to be the detail keeper for my ESFJ boyfriend who is usually too busy trying to help everyone else around him he cant remember to take care of himself lol. I'm only young, and maybe I don't know much, but I think women have just as much a right to be in power as men. Instead, they crave space in their relationship. ok both of you are named after a car hahahaha, named after a car, named after a girl "Emil Jellinek, a European automobile entrepreneur who worked with DMG, created the trademark in 1902, naming the 1901 Mercedes 35hp after his daughterMercedes Jellinek." You get along well until another extraverted type gets in the mix. ENTJ here with a sun in leo n moon in virgo lol. And, at 53% Introverted, 47% Extraverted, my own personality is running dangerously close to the ENTJ cliff edge. What You Must Know. I am wondering about being a Cancer and an ENTJ. At a guess, these "irrational" methods work by giving you more confidence in what you already believe. I'm middle-aged and still don't know how to "human.". I too am an ENTJ and an Aries. INTPs are intuitive individuals while ISTPs rely on their senses. These three categories, not being like everybody else, not being normal and being sick are in fact very different but have been reduced to the same thing', Sexually, the ENTJ is robust, imaginative and enthusiastic. 3-100% the same, apologize only to those who deserve it. are in this forum. And, at 53% Introverted, 47% Extraverted, my own personality is running dangerously close to the ENTJ cliff edge. Coming from the flip side as an INTJ-A malewith ENTJ spouse, I understand. I am also a student of esoteric subjects and an amateur astrologer. :) Sometimes I'm perceived to be such. You're know-it-alls and you believe your limited experience entitles you to opine on just about anything. Challenge me, but do not be a sissy about it. INTP like INFJs because they help them relate with people better. I spend half of my communication time trying to explain that I don't have any bad feelings towards another person just because I am critical of their product. (wikipedia) :) btw, find INTPs, we love you ENTJs of all genders. Strengths of the INTP and ENTJ Relationship 1. In Elizabeth Zott they'll find a kindred spirit of sorts. Us ENTJ'scan do anything. Answer (1 of 4): As an ENTJ, what I like most about INTPs is their ability to entertain ideas. Wanna know why I suppress my feelings? I own my personality especially because it is so rare. When INTPs crush on someone, they may try to place themselves strategically in the right place for something to happen. It's just that he 'thinks' emotions rather than 'feels' emotions. Saem with my family, friends etc. And who should apologize for trying too hard? Why cant we have more people in this world who arent afraid of honesty and welcome challenges. It is interesting to see that this is a common thing for ENTJs. Not because I want that role but because groups need leadership, even if it ends up being temporary. And ya, a lot of women hate me too ? And yes, we are REALLY rare. Btw your last words of "do you hate this dude?" When I express a belief , I qualify it by saying it is my perspective and not subject to your condemnation. ENTJs can steamroll someone if they're not careful. INTJs and ENTJs never good in relationship to begin with! Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. They often daydream and get caught up in fantasy. In normal circumstances, I will probably ignore the commands as an INTP. I share my feelings a lot, because it makes me look more friendly, and it doesno harm to me. I love evil women, we are victims no matter how much pain we inflict! I have a great amount of education and when I say something to someone Im working with, it comes from experienceand data. JavaScript is disabled. INTPs are emotional, hesitant, relaxed, problem-focused, and dependent. ENTJs are highly protective of their emotions and may find it difficult to express themselves and reveal their genuine feelings. Their arrogance and overconfidence are things INTPs struggle to accept. With her dominant and determined nature, she pulls me down and this makes me an unhealthy INFP. But do ENTJs really hate INTPs? By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Whitney and mercedesz, you both are clearly not entj as we (actual entjs) do not care about what others think. The people either love or hate me. ENFJs can help INTPs understand emotions (both their own and other people's). ENTJ's procrastination tendencies can be assisted by seeking value in the activities, breaking up the task into smaller tasks, and implementing completion rewards. They are highly intuitive and feel deeply for people they care about. A forum community dedicated to all ranges of personality types and people. Sometimes they are purely for fun, other times I really want to implement them and just need som. If you live/work/socialize with an ENTJ, prepare to hear some pretty blunt language. Couldn't agree more. One is a selfless but patient "planner" that never gets around to actually doing it/ doesn't want to ever start, and the other is a self-serving hot-blooded pursuer. Theyre the trendsetters and trendspotters, the ones who get the party started and the crowd hyped. Or a hobby for, say, astronomers who don't take astrology seriously My bf is entj and I literally told him you have to start acting like you don't care about what you're doing at work bc others were getting so jealous of him and trying to trip him up! I dont think saying sorry should be that hard for an ENTJ. This site uses cookies to keep you logged in if you register. I wish people would listen to what I say instead of how its said. Dating an ENTJ male currently and he has expressed he is dominant forceful commanding type. I can't believe all the comments from females saying they suppress their personalities. The main problem people have with it is that you can take it one time and get a different answer than the next time, but people's presonalities change, and if you put in same/similar answers you're going to get the same type. How to Integrate The Fool Archetype Into Your Life. INTP replies: Lets stay in, forget the parents, have sex and order pizza! I am currently 13 and I horribly struggle talking with the girls because Iam too well known for my arrogant and dominant nature. It can go against the INTPs moral compass the way ENTJs manipulate those around them to achieve their goals. Between the two, my life flows. I can't help but "think" emotions rather than feel them. I base my decisions on thought and statistics/data. I am a gemini (saggi moon) ENTJ. Because some games are cooperative, not competitive :) I don't play Go myself, but I hear masters of it try to just barely win, regardless of the skill level of their opponent, rather than just completely crushing the noobs. I say sorry a lot of times, when I really understand that I've made a fault. In addition, ISTPs have difficulty reading emotions and are logical and factual in their approach to relationships. Because we are now going to cover in-depth what INTPs like and dislike about ENTJs. well as an artistic ENTJ I can tell you that it is very unlikely your plans will be made any less grandiose. I do not think another ENTJ and I would be able to work shoulder to shoulder, but I have has success with INFPs in the past, and in my marriage. I think out loud a lot, and will come up with the craziest, not-very-intelligent hypotheticals and ideas. He also didn't invent the idea of temperaments. Ive always been incredibly organized and I do NOT need a wing-man or woman to handle the "unimportant stuff" (because that IS important). They are assertive and enjoy taking charge in most situations. They have a hard time connecting to the feelings of others, and can become uneasy around them. Theyreincredibly self-willedpeople, but they do know we cant always keep to ourselves and get things done, and they know how to exert themselves in a context, even if theyre not doing so in another context. My true nature is to help people, want to support them, optimize work processes. What's a girl to do? I alwayswonderedwhy I was different to all of the girls through primary school. Tell me when you think I am wrong and offera solution, and I will respect you. My mind is always calculating periods of free time in a day suitable for sex. Shouldnt judge motives but he laughs at things which I'm sure is fake etc. They see the logic in telling the truth and can trust others easily. What we're saying here is that an ENTJ functions best with a wing (wo)man. Oh and it will change your view on "Real Life" forever. 6- Not sure if we mean the same thing, but I've found that "my way" could occasionally be difficult for people even though if it's the most efficient route. However there are thousands of years of history through recorded documents that all have the same bottom line. I am a Classic ENTJ. Under stress, it's common for an ENTJ to crash into his or her 'shadow' personality. I am a giving, kind, considerate person. I don't know why people hate it when I am competitive. It's the ones we recommend the most for INTPs on Boo. Ugh. Does Journaling Make You Feel Worse? #aries. There quite a few EMTJ Aries here. Exactly, I personally used to do this untill my co worker heloped me big time. 3-saying sorry has never been a problem to me, especially in accidental situations or if im really wrong, but if you don't deserve it you will never hear it from me. You're basically ESTJs in disguise; you think you're macro-managing something, but you're trivial, you suffer from OCD, and you're just big, bloated fish in a small pond. Nice to meet ya. ENTJs tend to give objective feedback and evidence to help the INTP find the right answer to a problem. You will always wrong for them, and they will always wrong for you. INFJs can be evil when they lack emotional maturity. At-Home Workout Routines by Enneagram Type, Libra ENTJ , Minimum Friend (not verified), Enneagram Relationship Compatibility: Type Seven and Type Nine, How You Give Back, Based on Your Enneagram Type. In the end it just kind of manifests as having to put on a different face at work/ school. The "women especially hate me" resonates with me. . They often complain why theyre lonely when they shouldnt be with all the capabilities and rightedness they bring to a relationship, why people arentwilling to open doors when luck (them) knocks. So misinterpreted. My husband is a ENFP, although he adores and admires my strength, most of our couple friends clearly love him more. Part of that I'm certain is the natural way our types relate to each other about ideas. "Although being optimistic is certainly not limited to one type, there are some types that may be more inclined to, "According to a 2021 survey conducted by Truity, which involved over 88,000 people, ones are the least likely to be, Type Seven and Nine is a common relationship combination on the Enneagram. I say this here, in this forum, because I am of the opinion that our group ( should) be " the ones" that do not form hasty judgement prior to making a full investigation on a matter - ps: There are many keys of ' self-revelation' can be found for ENTJ both in the Books of Esther and Jonah have fun! I've found horoscopes somewhat helpful in a "once you've exhausted the methods of rationality, you have nothing further to lose by using the methods of irrationality" kind of way. Similar to why people don't like ESTJs. ESTJs, INTJs, ENFPs, INFJs, and INFPs, can also be attracted to an INTP, depending on the person and their preferences. Their focus may often cause them to have a more severe and stern outward appearance. Guess Ihave a type;unfortunately, that type tends not to like men. The guys have done nothing to tryand suppress me, they see me as an equal. Infographics about personality type, careers and more. There is nothing out of the ordinary, different or plain, special about you dear poster. I work in a male dominated field. However, it is nice that we can have a community of ENTJs where yall will understand our way of thinking and lifestyle! I have NO patience for people who dont listen or are lazy or refuse to follow logic for the sake of making themselves feel good. INTPs are attracted to the friendly, empathetic, and open nature of ENFJs. Are you curious to know more about how these two personality types match together? Often, when an INTP . I'm 0-, ENTJ Aries female here with o- blood type. Im a virgo ENTJ female and I also have to change my attitude with my friend but I still look rude and scary to them -_- and because of getting so much criticism from people im starting to become little introverted which i dont want to be. Your self-worth isn't defined by the level of your concerete and proven success as much as it's defined by the impressionability of your aggrandized self-conceptualization. I am kind and friendly. Since you brought up the topic of common mistypes, many ESTJ commonly believe they are ENTJ as well. special kind of life. I am ENTJ-T, you understand us completely. People dont. At the same time, INTPs may focus on how the situation has played out. Who cares what we feel, even if we spoke of it most of the time we will get trolled or mocked or even not give a fuck kind of response. You have to take the time to get to know them. As an ENTJ, I feel like you stated whatI wish everyone knew about me. 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